Few moments are as nerve-wracking as addressing an issue with a college professor. Palms are sweaty, knees are weak, heart is racing; It is a wonder the words even come out right. There comes a time in every student's life when they must confront a professor. Doing so can be scary, but staying calm, being polite, and understanding are the keys to a successful meeting, realizing there is no need for fear. That being said, it still does not hurt to know what one should definitely NOT say to a professor.

All students need to know first and foremost that professors care about their classes. They put a lot of time and effort into grading and lesson planning. A professor genuinely wants a student to take away some knowledge from their class. And as a student the goals of the course should be the same.

• "Did I miss anything important?": For some, asking a professor such a question would be considered disrespectful. When one feels the need to ask such a question it means that one has missed something "important". One is recommended not to ask this question, and not think for a second the professor will keep everything aside. It is completely the responsibility of the student to gather the "important" notes and catch-up.

• "I didn't know that was due!":  Likewise, stay organized and keep up with due dates. College is about becoming an adult. Saying such a statement, to some, would be considered a childish excuse. Also, saying this is negligent and shows the professor how little a student cares for the course. If a student cannot put the effort into remembering due dates, a professor cannot put the effort into swinging a passing grade.   

• "More time on an assignment.": A professor is more likely to work with a student who is eager to learn. A student loses all credibility when they complain and beg for, in some situations, extra time. Although there are legitimate excuses for this request, if there was ample time to finish an assignment, there is a possibility that one will not get the extension that it wanted.

• "I think I should have received a better grade.": Lastly, students should, by no means, complain about a grade they receive. A student stating such a statement is equal to questioning a professor's grading abilities. Students should always try their hardest, and strive for excellence. The grade is a reflection of a student's effort in the course; a bad grade is not the professor's fault.

A student's impact is always vital to a professor. It is always important to maintain a respectful attitude and good relationship. 90% of the battle in talking to a professor is talking to them like a human being and showing some interest in the course. A mutual understanding with the professor creates a less stressful time and increases the odds of them helping out. Remember to take a deep breath, relax, and stay away from these questions and excuses.